Observe, Understand & Respond:
the O.U.R. Children's
Safety Project
- Video Introduction to O.U.R.-
NEW! Parent Safety Toolkit
We at Hands & Voices wanted to share the news that parents and professionals can help our growing kids be safe in the world. This Parent Safety Toolkit shares resources to help parents, kids, and the community to understand specific skills, knowledge and practices that can keep our kids safe and independent.
Watch this short interview about the Parent Safety Toolkit
(captioned in English and Spanish)
Introduction
We don't like to think about it, but our kids who are deaf or hard of hearing are at a higher risk for both abuse and neglect. Like any children, they are at risk. As children who might not always be able to communicate easily and fluently, or understand the nuances of conversation with neighbors, caregivers, or strangers, they are at an even higher risk of being victims of someone, somewhere...
If we can stop that cycle with even one child, one family... our efforts are more than worthwhile.
Hands & Voices is working closely with researcher Harold Johnson, formerly at Michigan State University, to understand the scope of this problem, partner with supporting agencies (who often need to learn more about deafness), and teach ourselves how best to Observe, Understand, and Respond to our children. To keep them safe. To keep them free to grow up in the innocence of childhood.
We are challenging one another to spread the word about this important topic. Parent Guides from CO Hands & Voices Guide By Your Side are participating in a pilot project, keeping logs of the questions that arise, and sharing thoughts as they learn more about this topic.
There’s a lot more that we can be doing beyond wringing our hands in frustration. Below are resources that will be useful to parents in developing skills that will prepare us to share effectively with their own children. But don’t just stop at your own child or student, here are some things that you can do to help others be prepared:
- Pass-It-On: Share the articles, posted below, and its related resources, with at least one other parent, and then ask them to “pass-it-on.”
- Share the Story: Have a conversation with your child about abuse and neglect (see attached “Helping Parents Talk to Children” below) then share the story of how it went so that other parents can learn from your experience.
- Recognize the Best and Challenge Everyone Else: Ask the professionals who work with your child what they are doing to protect your child from abuse and neglect, then share the resulting reactions, information, resources, programs, and questions so that we recognize the best and challenge everyone else.
Fostering Joy
Find out more about the Hands & Voices Fostering Joy project that helps support the efforts of the O.U.R. Project
https://www.handsandvoices.org/resources/fostering-joy.htm
Resources
- Child Abuse and Neglect: Helping Parents Talk to Children
- Child Abuse and Neglect: Resources for Parents
- Recommended Book List from Vook Club, an O.U.R. Project Committee
- The H&V O.U.R. Traveling Exhibit booth
- Stop Bullying or Start Paying - PDF
- Cartoon Network - What Should You Do if Your Deaf or Hard of Hearing Child is Bullied? [ Download pdf - English ] [ Download Spanish version ]
- A Parent Shares about Personal Safety
IFSP/IEP
- The O.U.R. Children Project: Advocating for IFSP and IEP Documents to Include Safety Objectives - pdf
- Silence is NOT an Option: A Parent Driven Plan to Keep Our Children Safe at Home and at School (1.0) - pdf
- Silence is NOT an Option Safety Attachment (1.1) - pdf
Articles on O.U.R from the
Hands & Voices Communicator
- One Family’s Journey - Impatient to Know More
- D/HH Plus Column Reflecting on Early Intervention
- Audiologists Screening for Bullying Problems
- Saliva. I Did Not See that Coming
- One Family’s Journey: False Positive Fades to Just Positive
- Abuse in a Nice Family: A Cautionary Tale (* En Espanol )
- Childhood Trauma: Identification, Treatment and Hope
- Study: Abuse Rates Higher Among Deaf and Hard-of-Hearing Children Compared with Hearing Youth
- More than Just “Stay Away From the Bully” (* En Espanol )
- Allegations of Child Abuse: A Current Reality & an Emerging Opportunity for Change (* En Espanol )
- Reflecting on Tattling Versus Telling (* En Espanol )
- Asking Questions at School to Keep Our Kids Safe
- OUR Children’s Safety and Success Project: One Parent’s Story - Hiding in the Dark...
- The Girl in the Newspaper: A Personal Reflection on Safety
- Deaf / HH Children at Risk
- It’s Time to Do Something
- O.U.R. Children’s Safety Network Expands
- O.U.R. Children, Students & Peers
- Safety Topic: Touch in a Healthy Relationship
- Deaf Interpreter, Sign Language Interpreter—What’s the difference?
- H&V Rises to the Challenge:
O.U.R. Children’s Safety Project (*En Espanol )
Presentations
Reducing Harm From Toxic Stress and Abuse
December 2024
A presentation by Amy and Michael Curtiss
Keeping Our Students Safe at School:The H&V Safety Attachment
February 2024
The Hands & Voices Safety Attachment is a tool families can use for meaningful conversations with their IEP team to develop strategies to ensure the safety and well-being of DHH students in education.
Bonding During 1-3-6
January 2024
In this session Hannah Lumby, a parent from England, shares what she experienced in the months after she found out that her newborn had hearing loss and the impact on bonding during the 1-3-6 timelines of EHDI.
Insights from CASA
March 2023
Learn from a pediatric audiologist about her efforts to improve child safety through her volunteer work with CASA and others, ongoing education in her clinic practice, and through her lived experience as a person with a hearing difference.
Investing in Parent Safety Strategies as an Organization
February 2023
Learn how one international coalition of parent groups from around the world tackled this topic in their work together.
Attachment and Safety
January 2023
A Discussion led by Debbie Mood, Ph.D. is a psychologist with the Developmental Pediatrics
Unit of Children's Hospital Colorado.
Wisdom Among Us: Cybersecurity
June 2022
A Facilitated Discussion led by Sara Kennedy and Janet DesGeorges
Hot Topics: Summer Safety
May 2022
Facilitator: Sara Kennedy
Presenter: Irene van der Zande from Kidpower International
Safety through Storytime
March 2022
Facilitator: Chresta Brinkman
Presenter: Julia Luciana-Burns (Brighter World Child Advocacy Center)
webinar 3-8-22
Look at Foster-Adoption through a Safety Lens
December 2021
Facilitator: Sara Kennedy
Presenters: Robbi Crockett (TX H&V); Lisa Spencer (WA); Elizabeth Desloge (CA H&V)
Parent-Friendly Guide to Research: O.U.R. Children Project
November 2021
Presenter: Harold Johnson
Download a PDF of the PowerPoint Presentation
Top 12 Things I Wish Parents of Deaf/HH Kids Knew about the Criminal Justice System and Federal Civil Rights Laws Prohibiting Discrimination on the Basis of Disability
March 9th, 2021
Presenter: Marc Dubin
Expanding Our Impact Through Collaborations
Using your knowledge of children’s safety to influence change
Feb. 9, 2021
Facilitator: Janet DesGeorges
OUR Children Project:
Birth-3 Safety | Washington Hands & Voices Webinar
This webinar is a part of the OUR (observe, understand, respond) Children Project. Presenters Harold A. Johnson, Christine Griffin, and Sara Kennedy outline strategies to ensure personal safety for young children who are Deaf and hard of hearing. This webinar is provided by Washington Hands & Voices www.wahandsandvoices.org
Feb 13, 2020
Presenters: Dr. Harold Johnson, Christine Griffin & Sara Kennedy
Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/RjO2tZ0E7Ro
Enhancing Safety & Expanding Independence for 6-11 year-olds
This O.U.R. Project webinar for the California Chapter focused on teaching people safety skills and understanding development in 6-11 year olds with presenters Dr. Harold Johnson and Sara Kennedy.
CA Hands & Voices 8-2019 - pdf
Infant Mental Health – An Overview
This session will help viewers understand the definition of Infant-Early Childhood Mental Health (I-ECMH); Learn about the development of early social-emotional skills; Recognize how awareness of early, healthy social-emotional development can be the foundation for strong self-assured children/adults.
Doing Right by OUR Kids!
Protecting young people who are deaf or hard of hearing from abuse, bullying, and other harm.
Audio Recordings/Transcripts of Previous O.U.R. Special Guest Speakers/Presentations
Deaf Children, ACEs, and the School to Prison Pipeline: Problems and Solutions
January 9, 2018
Presenter: Dr. Gabriel Lomas
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The Radical Middle: How Professionals in Deaf Education are Making a Commitment to Working Better, Together
November 14 2017
Presenter: Michella Maiorana-Basas, Ph.D.
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Summer Safety for Hands & Voices Families
Tuesday, May 9, 2017
Presenter: Irene van der Zande
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Personal Reflections from a Mom: A Story of Love
April 11 , 2017
Shannon Elam, AuD, CCC-A
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Promoting the Health and Safety of Young Children with Special Needs
March 14 , 2017
E. Paula Crowley, Ph.D
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They won’t remember”: Myths about child, abuse, neglect and very young children
February 14 , 2017
Catherine Corr, PhD.
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Knowing Your Child/Student Understands Their Rights and knows When to Say No!
January 10th
Caroline Guardino, Ph.D.
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“Turning Victims into Survivors: One Former Teacher of the Deaf Tells Her Story”
February 13, 2018
Presenter: Karen L. Kritzer, Ph.D.
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“Why Do I Need to be Trauma-Informed?
March 13, 2018
Presenter: M. Elizabeth Ralston, Ph.D.
“Three Steps to a Stronger O.U.R. Project : With Examples from Michigan and other Chapters “
April 10, 2018
Presenters: The O.U.R. Project team, HQ Staff and our community of learners
---Follow up to March 13 Discussion “Protecting our Children: Before and After Potentially Traumatic Events”
May 8, 2018
Presenter: M. Elizabeth Ralston, Ph.D.