Change, even for the better, can be uncomfortable. When a bump in the road becomes visible, we may want to move backward, or stand still, paralyzed with fear of the unknown. Each life transition molds us into something different than we were before.
Deaf and hard of hearing students face specific challenges in regard to transitioning from childhood to adulthood, and from the classroom to the working world.
I have learned that the difference between a successful transition and a difficult transition can be summed up in two words: self-determination and self-advocacy. Along with careful planning, effective communication, and access to good information, deaf and hard of hearing students who have learned to advocate for themselves can make a smoother transition to life beyond high school.
My own transition from childhood to adulthood was difficult. My family and I had little to no support or transition services. While I was fortunate that my hearing loss was diagnosed at eight months of age, early intervention programs have evolved greatly from the late 60's and 70's! In my schooling days, there were no IEP's, interpreters, or accommodations. I was mainstreamed without any of that support. I struggled through every major transition in my life.
I look at the services available to Deaf and hard of hearing students today and wonder how different my life would have been had I had access to these same services. Growing up, isolated and alone, I didn't know who to approach for support. My parents weren't much help. They simply couldn't believe that I was unable to hear. I think they thought I could get along fine without any special help.
IEP's were not implemented until 1975. Some services were provided in the 1980's, but we all know that reasonable accommodations and modifications are not always in place today as they should be by law.
I realize that I not only survived without support services, I succeeded. My struggles made me who I am today, for which I am grateful. I wanted to use my experiences to give back to the Deaf and hard of hearing community. In 2003, I became a teacher of the Deaf at a specialized program in a public school. I taught my students not only how to utilize the services that were available to them, but also how to maximize their own strengths. Along with helping the students to coordinate their high school course list, monitoring their progress relative to their personal and IEP goals, and setting transition goals with them, I taught my students self-advocacy skills that they could apply to their everyday lives.
My goal was that students would leave my classroom knowing the services and accommodations they should reasonably expect from a public education institute, thus, helping them to transition.
I learned about self-advocacy the hard way -- through trial and error. I didn't even know the term in my school age years. Self-advocacy just means being able to speak up for yourself. To speak up, I had to first learn to accept that my hearing loss caused me some difficulties. Hiding these struggles was exhausting and didn't help me succeed in class. I had to expect that teachers didn't know how to provide appropriate accommodations and that I had to teach them about my hearing loss. I had to explain about my difficulties with instruction and notetaking. For example, if I asked a classmate for notes (not an easy thing to do), I would copy them in class. Of course, I missed much of the teacher's instruction because I couldn't lipread and copy at the same time. I had to meet several teachers every day after school to ask clarifying questions about the homework or the class instruction. I learned to explain my learning styles and convince them to make changes in how they presented information. I learned that I could not be afraid to ask for help when I need it. There was no one else to do it for me.
If I had to narrow my focus to the top ways a student can learn to become a better self advocate, I would list them this way:
Parents of Deaf and hard of hearing children can play a critical part in helping their child learn to self advocate, and to develop realistic goals. We value the collaboration with parents in designing transition plans.